Text a Girl You Like and Turn Her On:
(Most Men Will Never Know)
- WOMEN RESPOND TO EMOTION, NOT LOGIC
Most men make the mistake of being logical texters. They state facts, ask direct questions, and think they’re building connection.
But women are emotionally wired. They crave feelings, not just information.
Your texts need to:
• Trigger curiosity.
• Build anticipation.
• Tap into her fantasies.
Example:
Bad (Logical): “What’s your favorite movie?”
Good (Emotions): what’s that one movie that always makes you cry?"
The second question dives into her emotional world and makes her FEEL.
- WOMEN TEST THROUGH SILENCE
When she doesn’t reply, most men panic and send follow-up texts. Wrong move.
Her silence is a subconscious test of your masculinity to see if you’ll lose frame.
Women don’t respect men who chase validation.
Here’s the secret:
• Don’t react emotionally.
• Match her energy or even pull back.
When she sees you’re unaffected, she’ll feel the urge to re-engage.
- THE “SUGGESTIVE GAP” STRATEGY
Women love to read between the lines.
The best texts create a sense of intrigue and leave room for her imagination to run wild.
Example:
Her: “What are you doing later?”
You: “Depends. Might get into some trouble. [Image: 1f609.png]”
This isn’t explicit, but it sparks curiosity.
She’ll start filling in the blanks with her own fantasies and daydreaming.
Women ars masters of overthinking, use it to your advantage.
- THE “HIGH-LOW EMOTIONAL LOOP”
This is also called “Dance of Attraction”. (Two steps forward, one step back).
To keep her hooked, alternate between moments of high emotional intensity and casual, low-effort texts.
This taps into her need for emotional variety.
Example:
• High: Tease her, make her laugh, or send a big compliment.
• Low: Go quiet for a few hours or respond minimally.
This creates an emotional rollercoaster.
She become addicted to highs, and the lows make her crave more.
Don’t underestimate this balance.
- WOMEN RESPOND TO STATUS CUES IN TEXTING
Every text you send signals your value.
Women subconsciously pick up on these cues:
• Are you too available? (Low status)
• Are you leading the conversation? (High status)
• Do you seem busy with an exciting life? (High status)
When texting, signal high value:
Be concise.
Lead with confidence.
Show you have a life outside of her.
Example:
Bad: “Can I see you this weekend?”
Good: “I’m free Saturday night. Let’s grab a drink.”
You’re leading, not asking for permission. Big difference.
- WOMEN ARE OBSESSED WITH STORYTELLING
Women live for stories; romantic comedies, novels, and fantasies.
Texting her is your chance to become the leading man in her story.
Paint vivid pictures in her mind. Build narratives where she sees herself with you.
Example:
Her: “What are you up to?”
You: “Just left the gym. Thinking about where to take you for our next adventure. You like sunsets?”
This subtle narrative plants a romantic, exciting image in her head.
You’ve just set a stage for her fantasy.
- WOMEN CRAVE “UNPREDICTABILITY”
Women are drawn to men who keep them guessing.
Don’t always text at the same time, with the same energy, or the same tone. Mix it up.
Example:
Some days: Text her playful, high-energy messages.
Other days: Be quiet or respond minimally.
Unpredictable keeps her emotionally invested.
- TEXTING ISN’T ABOUT WORDS—IT’S ABOUT SUB COMMUNICATION
The words you use matter less than what they signal.
Your tone, timing, and style communicate:
- Confidence vs. insecurity.
- Leadership vs. neediness.
- Abundance vs. scarcity.
A high-value man texts with purpose. Every message should either:
- Add more value to her life.
- Build emotional connection.
- Create intrigue.
- Move her closer to meeting up.
If it doesn’t do one of these, don’t send it.
- WOMEN ARE ADDICTED TO CHASING
Women value men they have to work for. If you make it too easy, she’ll lose interest.
Texting rules to maintain the chase:
• Give her small “wins” but pull back before she gets comfortable.
• Never reveal all your feelings too early.
• Make her earn your time and attention.
When she’s the one investing, she’ll become obsessed with you.
- TEXTING TO TRIGGER ATTRACTION: “THE PROJECTION TECHNIQUE”
Women subconsciously project their emotions onto the man they’re texting.
You can use this to create a sense of fate or special connection.
Example:
Her: “I’m picky about who I spend time with.”
You: “Same. Crazy how we’re on the same wavelength already.”
This subtle creates a sense of compatibility and mutual understanding, triggering deeper attraction.
- THE FINAL SECRET: IT’S NOT ABOUT TEXTING AT ALL
The way you text is just an extension of who you are. If you’re confident, assertive, and in control in real life, your texts will naturally reflect that.
• Build a life she wants to be part of.
• Maintain frame in every interaction, not just over text.
• Never let her texting games shake your confidence.
When you internalize this, texting become effortless. She’ll feel your energy through every message.
TEXTING is the modern way women getting men.
No matter how good you are in person if your texting game SUCKS you’ll never date her.
TO WHOM BRAIN IS GIVEN, SENSE IS EXPECTED
